SANATU ZAMBANG STUDIOS (Podcast)

According to the teachings both of Islam and Christianity what are the duties of a man to his wife. What will prompt a man to bring in a second wife, if so, Can the man take care of both wives equally. in this 21 century, are there benefits of marry more than one. Assuming your wife can't conceive, can you go in for another woman who can. And finally is there a difference in having your own children and adopting. (Romeo shares his Christian knowledge) husband should be self-sacrificing: Well, The Bible tells husbands to love their wives in a very special way, “Husbands, luv your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up of her…" (Ephesians 5:25 ESV). Husbands are not to expect their wives to be slaves.. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church" (Ephesians 5:28-29, 33a ESV). The husband shoul...

Tamanda Chabvuta says " It's sad to note that we are living in times where people jump at marriage when they are not ready for it and jump out the first time reality sinks in. " Mur Phid says " We go to religious leaders for marriages. Do we go to them for solutions when there is a problem ? If religious leaders are the ones that put together our marriage then thier the only ones that can divorce us again not even our ownselves,police or court. " Luqman Bukuya says " Men doesn't marry their type of women, and a vice versa. Some men too spend a lot on women during their relationship or during their wedding. I don't know whether to please the woman or to show off. And when the woman doesn't get such money to spend anymore after the marriage, problems starts. " Shamseeyat Baba Dua says " Most marriages of our time are built on deceit in the sense that couples at the courtship stage fail to disclose to each other about the reality of...

Tamanda Chabvuta says " One of the worst things that as communities, governments, parents or teachers can do is blaming a girl for any advances or indecency that occurs with a male teacher. " Deenil Islam says " Am I suggesting a parenting course for couples? Maybe. Don't let your children curse you one day because you didn't fulfill your obligations." Luqman Bukuya says " Any responsible and well trained teacher will not stand so low for that, that is why I don't support the idea of a teacher asking his female student to come to his house to wash and tidy his room for him " S Awal Mburidiba says " We have the CHRAJ and the WAJU,now DOVVSU,both to protect the rights of the citizenry,and mostly the vulnerable. But what have they done in that regard? Little! " Inge van Leusen says " You can't blame the parents, they are at home or work trusting the teachers to teach there children and be in a safe place. Now that saf...

(Ike Nana Kweku Amoah) Yes because, a woman in marriage becomes the most concerned partner in a family when it comes to decision making despite the faith (religious faith). For marriage is not all about children but the real marriage God anoints is the companionship of the couples. So I don’t think a man has that right to remarry just because the wife doesn’t conceive. For more info. check Ephesians 5:22 - 5:33 (Mur Phid) I have check Ephesians 5:22-33. And I have not seen where it says no remarriage. I have not also seen where it says when u take another wife it means u don't love da first one or u hate her. Why don't u also check Genesis 16:1-4 (Ike:..) The understanding of scripture is not of the naked eyes but the wisdom from God please check it well from 28 downwards and if a man does that because of a child then his love becomes lust not love and mind you, lust is not only about sexual desire but any conditional feeling about someone or some thing. I believe with tha...

I look at parents especially mothers and I ask myself are they living or existing, know matter how much love, care and attention you give your child or children, they are still human beings and you are not the only influence on them. The baby born today grows to become the man or woman of the society, if he/she is good the society praise them, if he/she is bad the society rejects them. In Recent times many have blamed fathers for not being there for their children likewise many blame mothers. So I asked, who is to blame when the child grows up to be a menace " bad " in the society. Do we blame the father, the mother or society. Also how many of us agree with this phrase " when the child is good, praise the father, but when the child is bad, blame the mother " ( Alhassan Progress ) The individual behavior of parents and their interaction with each other are the basic lessons to the child. This combined with behavior of members of the society which she/he i...